Life has become increasingly difficult lately. Meaning the last 3 months. The relationship between my wife and I has become extremely strained. I work all day (at 2 jobs mind you) and she sits home and does nothing. No dishes! No laundry! No cleaning! Not even picking up! Now don't get me wrong she does do something....lie on the couch, sleep and DRINK. Oh also she is always forgetting things. The time, date of the week, appointments, everything. Then when I remind her she gets mad at me and says all I am trying to do is make her crazy.
Truthfully, it is driving me crazy and making so I don't want to be around her. I am seriously afraid that if we don't get help, we are going to split. But that brings up another issue, her counselor, and doctor are not allowed to know she drinks and if I say anything GOD STRIKE ME DOWN!
So it is like she wants to get "better" but she not telling the whole story. So if we went into couples couseling I don't know what I would do.
My life is like walking a tight rope....I am damned if I do....I am damned if I don't.